Can you imagine a relationship where...
- Clarity in communication is no longer an issue and you’re able to communicate in a way that has both partners feeling seen, heard and understood
- You no longer delay or put off difficult conversations out of fear of confrontation, stress, and conflict, in fact, you embrace the hard stuff because you know that together you are stronger and you’ll always find a way back to love
- You detect and dissolve issues effectively… before they become too complicated to resolve and before they start to erode the very foundation of your connection
- You get to grow with your partner instead of growing apart, so that you become the couple that everyone around you strives to be, regardless of how long you’ve been together
- You have an exciting, adventurous, fulfilling sex life that only gets better as time goes on
- You never run the risk of holding any buried resentment and contempt for each other, so that you can continue to deepen in love without underlying issues resurfacing and unhealthy patterns that come back again and again
- You finally begin to express your thoughts, feelings, and ideas about each other and to each other, in ways that are fully felt, received and respected by the other…
- Allowing you to comfortably explore the truest versions of yourselves both inside and outside of the relationship in ways that feel freeing and exciting while staying fully committed to each other and your love…
Meaning you get to experience a deeper intimacy and connection than you ever thought would be possible.
A love that truly feels unbreakable.
Sounds like a dream relationship doesn’t it?
There’s a chance you read that and thought:
…but is all of that really possible for me? Am I good enough for the relationship of my dreams?
And here’s something we can tell you with absolute certainty:
IT IS 100% POSSIBLE FOR YOU & YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH TO HAVE IT
REGARDLESS of whether you’re a people pleaser, avoidant, anxious, have had toxic relationships, don’t have the time or you generally feel like you’re ‘bad at relationships’…
Introducing...
The Foundations of Love is an 8 week group coaching program designed to help you and your partner build the foundations for lasting love, intimacy, and passion.
During our 8 weeks together, we'll be diving into masculine & feminine dynamics, communication, sex, and more so that you and your partner can examine all parts of your relationship, get rid of any dynamics that aren't serving you, and truly co-create the relationship of your dreams together.
SHOW ME HOW TO DO IT BETTER
“I feel seen and heard, I know how to make him feel seen and heard and we’re both happy, relaxed, in love and committed. It feels amazing”
- Bethany D., A former client of Kelley's
This could be the NEXT BEST STEP in your relationship if you and your partner…
★ Are in a new relationship and don’t want the honeymoon phase to ever end or you’re trying to figure out if you’re truly compatible long-term…
★ You’ve been in a relationship for a while now but you’re not sure if you’re really wanting to take the next step together (marriage, engagement kids) or call it quits
★ Are starting to notice niggling issues and REALLY want to see if they are deal-breakers or can be resolved
★ Have difficulty voicing unmet needs and unspoken desires and/or every time you do, it either turns to conflict, silence or glazing over issues until they resurface in a different way (in current or past relationships)
★ Share a tendency to withhold problems until they blow up and when they do blow up, it can cause issues that seem unfixable
★ Have the same disagreements over and over again, even though it feels like you tend to work through it and move on, you’re somehow talking about the same things weeks or months later
★ Aren’t having the most satisfying sex (wanting different things, things fizzling out shortly after etc.) and you’re starting to feel like you’re losing attraction OR you’re just really committed to keeping the attraction, desire, and love alive after the honeymoon phase and beyond
★ One of you or both carry shame around sex due to your upbringing that is affecting your intimacy
★ Have been in toxic relationships in the past but you really wish to see this turn out differently
★ Or you’re single and want to prepare the ground for an intimate, passion-filled, lasting relationship in the future
YES THIS IS US
And you deeply want…
★ Your relationship to go from ‘okay’ to AMAZING and stay that way for the long-term
★ To truly discover if this relationship that you’re in is the right one for both of you
★ You want to nurture your attraction and keep that honeymoon phase spark alive
★ To communicate your deepest, most unmet needs in a non-confrontational, conflict-free way… that encourages your partner to happily pursue them and makes you fall deeper and deeper in love
★ To build an inseparable connection with your partner that feels healthy and freeing and not restrictive or stifling in any way
★ To remove subconscious blocks from past pain and unhelpful beliefs about relationships in general that continually come between you and deep intimacy
★ To get rid of ego-centric, toxic dynamics that keep your relationship from being healthy and strong so that you can FINALLY let go of those old unhealthy cycles for good
★ To learn how to detect and dissolve issues quickly and effectively… before they become too complicated to resolve and before they quietly start to erode at the very foundation of your relationship
★ To feel connected, heard and TRULY seen, in a way that helps you to grow as both individuals and in your relationship together… so that you can forge a deep, intimate, and unshakable bond with your partner
★ A steady, stable, and emotionally fulfilling partnership, where you feel like part of a team
★ And most importantly… simplify the complexity of your relationship and relationships in general, so that you never wind up feeling lost and confused in your relationship
I WANT THIS
If so, then Foundations of Love offers you the answers to ALL of your questions in ONE PLACE - minus the awkward experimentation and trial-and-error phase that has repeatedly shown to do more damage to couples than any good.
By the end of this course, you will…
★ Have no issues deciphering the root-cause of your conflicts and be able to work through them in a way that is healthy and empowering
★ Find ABSOLUTE clarity in the future vision of your relationship or future relationships and know exactly how to communicate that in a way that deepens your connection and gives you both a common goal (so you feel like you’re on a team)
★ Have the courage to share your concerns, unmet needs and unspoken desires and comfortably talk to each other about your differences so that you can feel more accepted and get more of your needs met more often, while knowing how to meet your partners needs
★ Start picking up invisible patterns that covertly sabotage physical intimacy and erode your sexual connection over time, so you can avoid them and eradicate them immediately and have the best, long-lasting physical connection possible
★ Be able to diffuse conflicts quickly, as and when they occur and well before they pile up and explode, causing deeper resentment and contempt (Being preventative instead of reactive)
★ Break old, damaging patterns and discover a relationship that gets easier and more loving as time goes on
★ Be absolutely clear about each others’ needs, demands and desires
★ Enjoy deeper levels of sexual intimacy where you awaken new levels of sensuality and your time together becomes more connecting, passionate, euphoric and fulfilling
★ Tap into previously unexplored levels of understanding, connection and comfort
★ Get the practical, day-to-day tools you need to simplify your communication so that you can reignite your love
WE NEED THIS
How we’ll help you:
In this 8-week-long, transformational course, we will personally help you discover old blindspots that sabotaged your past relationship, discover and resolve the issues in your current relationship, and lay the foundation for lasting love, intimacy, and passion with your partner.
We do this by using a tried-and-true combination of teaching and coaching calls while honing down the core areas to work on into 4 easy-to-grasp pillars.
And this is done by taking you through 1 of each pillar on every teaching call, and then giving you plenty of time to have all of your questions asked in a full coaching call (nothing is off the table in the coaching calls, so you really can use the time exactly as you need to).
In each teaching call, you will learn new skills, frameworks, and healthy practices for your relationship. In each coaching call, we help you identify your own blind spots that inhibit you from implementing or having success with these tools.
Here’s the structure we’ll be following:
Week 1: Teaching Call - Pillar 1: Awaken Your Masculine & Feminine Energy
Week 2: Hot Seat Coaching Call With Kelley & Matt
Week 3: Teaching Call - Pillar 2: The Art Of Open Communication For An Extraordinary Relationship
Week 4: Hot Seat Coaching Call With Kelley & Matt
Week 5: Teaching Call - Pillar 3: Take Your Sex Life & Intimacy To The Next Level
Week 6: Hot Seat Coaching Call With Kelley & Matt
Week 7: Teaching Call - Pillar 4: Being 'The One' For Yourself
Week 8: Hot Seat Coaching Call With Kelley & Matt
OK LET’S DO THIS
And you’ll be guided throughout these 8 weeks by two coaches who have EACH mentored THOUSANDS of individuals to reach their dream relationships and are well-versed in the concepts of:
→ Inner child work
→ Avoidant/anxious attachment styles
→ Masculine & Feminine Polarity
→ Shadow Work
→ Law of Attraction & Manifestation
→ Conflict Resolution
→ Conscious Communication
→ Intimacy
→ Breathwork
→ Somatic Healing
I’M READY TO APPLY
Take a look at what some of our clients and attendees have had to say about working with us:
I have always struggled with romantic relationships and although I began to work on some of this in therapy, Matt made all of the content and lessons extremely digestible and relatable. In therapy you are doing this work alone, but the community aspect adds so much as we learn we are truly never alone in our experiences. This course is a must for everyone, not just those looking to start a relationship. Thank you, Matt!
- Chelsey Larson
Before I started working with Kelley, I truly believed that being in a healthy relationship wasn’t possible for me. I had completely sworn off of dating from when I left university until right before I turned 30. Largely out of fear. I knew if I told myself I didn’t want it, I couldn’t be disappointed by not getting it if I tried. But I did actually really want a relationship where I felt safe, I just couldn’t admit that. All of my past relationships, I always had to be strong and protect myself. I had been following Kelley on Instagram for a long time, and the whole conversation about really loving men (as a feminist woman with some past traumas) started to feel SO good for me. Society had me convinced that all men were terrible, and it shut me down to loving men completely (which I know is fair for some time, depending on your personal experience).
I was back and forth about investing in Dating For Love for various reasons, and then after listening to a podcast of Kelley’s where she was talking about loving men, I knew I had to do it. And then my actual experience inside Dating for Love was way better than I ever expected it to be. The sisterhood with other women was so powerful for me, hearing and seeing other women in their experience and being able to share that with each other was even better than therapy! I loved so much that even Kelley’s style of coaching was so feminine, I felt that I had been held in this safe feminine space and I was given so much permission to do what worked best for me.
- Bethany Dixon
Wow where do I even begin. I started in bodied love not knowing how in-depth we would dive into trauma work, shadow self, uncomfortable topics but yet so healing. I have felt like I’ve done a complete transformation and we’re only a month in. I have been able to do amazing things such as set boundaries in my relationships, address my needs, wants and desires with the guidance of Matt, the education he has provided, and the safe space at the container has created. I started this program with the intent to heal myself from a toxic relationship I encountered in 2020. However I have felt I have healed parts of myself I didn’t think I’d ever get the chance to. I’ve been able to heal childhood traumas I have felt uncomfortable talking about my whole life. I am a different woman through being apart of this container. I am healing. I am integrating and embodying a whole new belief system, attitude and just overall self LOVE. I cannot thank Matt enough for this course & I will continue to invest in more group containers like this very one in the future.
- Tabitha Hudson
Why you don’t want to miss this…
Here's our Guarantee:
Our courses and teachings have proven to be *so successful* that we are absolutely confident you will achieve the intimacy you wish to see in your love life.
So much so, that we give our clients the strongest guarantee imaginable. If you think you haven’t reached your desired goal for your relationship by the end of this program, we’ll keep working with you until you do. We’ll keep inviting you for future Foundations of Love rounds.
This means after the 8-week program, you stay as alumni in the community, and join the next round of Foundations of Love where you can join our weekly scheduled calls until you’ve reached your goal or its equivalent.
*This doesn’t apply to meeting a partner, for those who are single because the nuances of that situation are extremely varied and we don’t want to encourage people to make rushed decisions, but the course is still extremely valuable to anyone who is single and wants their next relationship to be as healthy as possible*
The Logistics:
8 weeks of personalized coaching
Weekly 2-hour live zoom call with Kelley & Matt
Breakdown of each Teaching Module:
1: Awaken your masculine & feminine energy
Here’s what you’ll learn:
- What your core essence is and what that means for you so that you can understand yourself & your relationship more deeply
- The pathway to awakening more of your core essence to create more flow, polarity, and attraction in your relationship
- Understanding your partners essence so that there is less misunderstanding and more compassion & gratitude in your relationship
- Simple tools to help inspire your partner to step more into their essence while you are doing the same so that there can be even more attraction & polarity between the two of you
- How to heal from past misunderstandings so that you can let go of old resentments and start fresh with each other
2: The Art Of Open Communication For An Extraordinary Relationship
In this module, you'll learn:
- How to turn conflict into connection so that you can confront problems with confidence that you can make it through to the other side together
- How to communicate with your lover without fighting so that you can approach any topic without the fear of it going wrong
- How to communicate in the face of difficult emotions so that you can experience being heard, seen, and understood
- How to express your needs, desires, and boundaries so that you feel truly fulfilled, honored, and happy in your relationship
- The framework to prevent future communication issues with your lover so that you can experience a relationship with even more harmony, connection, and love in the long term
3: Take Your Sex Life & Intimacy To The Next Level
Here’s what you’ll learn:
- What yours and your partner’s ‘sexual love language’ is so that you can understand yourself and your partner at a deeper level & find common ground where there might have been disconnection before
- How to ask for what you want & share what you don’t want in a way that will have you feel fulfilled and have your partner feel so honored and excited to please you
- How to heal shame around your sexual needs and desires so that you can free yourself up to experience even more pleasure, fun, and fulfillment in your sex life
- New practices to try with your partner to explore new depths of your sex together so that you both can continue growing together in this area that is so important to the overall health of your relationship
4: Being 'The One' For Yourself
In this module, you'll learn:
- How to uncover your own shadows and blindspots so that you are no longer blaming the outside world for your patterns & challenging relationships of the present, past, or future
- The mental framework that will have you able & empowered to handle conflict in a way that is personally responsible and truly effective in any relationship
- Simple yet profound ways to improve your relationship with yourself so that all other relationships will naturally improve as well
- How to honor yourself and your relationship at the same time so that you never have to sacrifice one for the other or even make compromises that you have you ultimately feeling unfilled or resentful in your relationship
“I started this program with the intent to heal myself from a toxic relationship I encountered in 2020. However I have felt I have healed parts of myself I didn’t think I’d ever get the chance to”
- Cselia, A Recent Client of Matt's
Shadow Work Workshop from Matt
Manifesting Love Workshop from Kelley
The Deep End Program from Matt
88 Questions for Partners from Kelley & Matt
Capped at 46 spots
(1 spot = 1 single or 1 couple)
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Foundations of Love will begin on:
Friday, August 26th at 9am WITA
Time Zone Conversions:
Thursday, August 25th at 6pm PST (LA)
Thursday, August 25th at 9pm EST (New York)
Friday, August 26th at 2am BST (London)
Friday August 26th at 11am AEST (Sydney)
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Hear what our past clients are saying...
Before working with Kelley, I was feeling SO apprehensive and honestly terrified to begin dating! Now I feel excited and grateful to be coming out of the rut I had myself stuck in! I certainly still have a ways to go in my journey to being vulnerable and open to love, but I can feel things are shifting!
- Grace
Participating in Kelley’s Communicating with Men and Intimately Yours courses truly transformed my relationship with my husband of 14 years. I used to really struggle with trust and communication, I’d always feel like I was nagging him to do the housework or felt like he just didn’t want to put the effort into our marriage. I just felt really trapped in our roles as stay-at-home mom and working dad. But as I went through Kelley’s course and connected with the sisters inside the community, I felt a shift. I came face to face with my negative cycles, I realized my own part in our disconnection where I wasn’t communicating properly, or how I never felt worthy of my own desires enough to even tell him about them! I learned how to step into my feminine energy and allow my husband to take the lead and be in his masculine, which also included accepting his gifts and letting him do sweet gestures for me. I’m now able to practice appreciating him and along with Kelley’s tools and coaching, it has reignited our relationship again and I can’t thank Kelley enough for that.
- Tori
Before joining Embodied Love, I had been working on myself, but missing the community aspect of healing. I felt lonely on my journey and knew that there was a missing part to this healing work. Support from community is such a game changer. I had never experienced a community like this in my life. To have support and have people hold space for you to be exactly who you are is so expansive and wholesome.
I pushed myself out of my comfort zone, spoke up, showed up, supported others, and received support, this is where the magic happens. Every call, I had something to takeaway with whether its a tool, wisdom, or just the beauty of observing live coaching take place. I left each call feeling inspired and connected. This program is all about being the person you desire to connect with in a partnership and I can truly say each call clarifies more and more and empowers me to live in that desired and abundant space.
- Kaitlin Kirkman