"I've done all the work. Why isn't it working?"Healed, grown, still single
You've invested in therapy and yourself. You just need the strategy and support to turn that into a relationship.
Matt Cama ยท Dating coach for women who want marriage
You've built an amazing life. Now let's find the man you'll marry.
I'm Matt Cama, a husband, father and certified trauma-informed dating coach. With my wife Kelley, I co-founded Dating For Marriage, where we help successful single women heal old patterns, meet quality men and build a relationship that leads to marriage.
Are you a man? See 1:1 coaching for men
Live every Thursday6:00 PM Central100% free
Real women. Real love stories.
Hear their stories
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Join the free live workshop
Get the dating plan we give our private clients, live with me on Zoom. Every Thursday at 6:00 PM Central.
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Book a free Love Life Audit
A complimentary call to find what's been keeping you stuck and see if Dating For Marriage is right for you. No pressure, no gimmicks.
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The Dating Plan to Meet, Date & Marry Your Future Husband
Discover why you haven't met him yet, and the step-by-step dating plan to meet your dream man and create the healthy, loving relationship that leads to marriage.
- The dating plan we give our private clients
- Where and how to meet marriage-minded men
- How to date him without skipping red flags
- How to get into a committed relationship that leads to marriage
Save your free seat
- When
- Every Thursday ยท 6:00 PM Central
- Where
- Live on Zoom
- Cost
- 100% free
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Hear it from them
Real women. Their own words.
Press play to hear what changed for them.
"That was the best investment I've ever made in my life. I met my husband because of it."
Jonnemarie
"I just didn't believe that I was going to find anybody."
Rugi
"Whatever your difficulties are: emotional, time, money, language - go for it!"
Amina, Clinical Psychologist
"The rewards are just astounding. It's worth it."
Erica E.
"You don't talk!"What an ex told me, in front of all my friendsMy story
Hey! I'm Matt.
Before high school, I was an outgoing and unapologetically confident kid. I was loud, funny, and full of joy. But everything shifted for me in my first year of high school.
- "Fat Matt"I went to a sports high school in Australia, surrounded by kids who were extremely athletic. I was a chubby kid, and kids started calling me "Fat Matt." I made an unconscious decision: "If I'm seen, it equates to pain. So I need to be as invisible as possible."
- "Mute Cama"I became extremely quiet and tried to fade into the background. It didn't stop the bullying. Kids started calling me "Mute Cama" instead of "Matt Cama."
- Friend-zoned and cheated onI struggled to express my needs, take up space, and feel confident in who I was. I became the guy who was friend-zoned, cheated on, and struggled to keep a girl interested.
- I hired a dating coachI learned how to heal from my past, rewire my subconscious beliefs, and combine that with relational skills: flirting, communicating my needs, setting boundaries, and being confident in who I am. That's when my love life began to transform.
- Married to the love of my lifeKelley followed me on Instagram the night I got back from a healing retreat. I asked her if she'd be down to feed fruit to cows with me. Now we're married, we're parents, and we run Dating For Marriage together.
Now I help women, and men too, avoid the same struggle I went through, so they can meet the person they'll marry.
Is this you?
Who I help
"I'm starting over."Recently single or divorced
You want to heal properly this time, so the next relationship is the right one.
"I'm dating, but nothing sticks."Dating without direction
You're meeting men, but it fizzles after a few dates or never turns into commitment.
"I don't know where to start."Haven't dated in a while (or ever)
You want the confidence, healing and practical steps to finally put yourself out there.
Are you a man who's ready to find his wife? I coach men 1:1 too โ
For men
1:1 coaching for men
I was the guy who got friend-zoned, cheated on, and told "You don't talk!"
A dating coach helped me heal my past, find my confidence and become the man Kelley fell in love with. Now I work one on one with men who want the same thing: to meet the woman they'll marry.
Fill out a short application to see if we're a good fit.
What we work on together
- Confidence and taking up spaceRewire the old beliefs that keep you quiet, invisible or holding back.
- Flirting and communicating your needsSay what you want, set boundaries and keep her interested.
- Healing past hurtMove on from heartbreak or being cheated on, so it doesn't follow you into your next relationship.
- Dating with intentionMeet women who want marriage too, and build a relationship that lasts.
Dating For Marriage
Our coaching program: the Formula To Finding Love
Finding a healthy relationship isn't about luck or timing. It's a skill, and you can learn it. Inside Dating For Marriage, Kelley and I walk you through five steps, with weekly live coaching and a sisterhood of women who want what you want.
- HealRelease what's been choosing for you.
- ClarifyKnow exactly who you're looking for.
- EmbodyShow up as the woman he's drawn to commit to.
- DateA clear plan to meet men who want marriage.
- CreateBuild a relationship that leads to marriage.
Your first step
What happens on your free Love Life Audit
One call to get clear on your love life. Together, we'll look at three things:
- Where you are nowAn honest look at your dating life, your patterns, and what's been happening so far.
- Where you want to beThe relationship, marriage and family you're praying for.
- The Love Blocks keeping you stuckThe hidden beliefs and patterns standing between you and the man you'll marry.
"The discovery call was one of the calmest, most helpful discovery calls I've ever been through with a coach."
A client, after her Love Life Audit
Not ready for a call yet?
Get the free Compatibility Checklist
The 8 critical areas of compatibility to check, so you can tell if the man you're dating (or will date) is truly right for you. No more second-guessing.
Common questions
Before you book
Is the Love Life Audit really free?
Yes. It's a complimentary call to look at where you are, where you want to be, and what's been keeping you stuck. If we're confident we can help, we'll walk you through your options. If not, no worries. We part as friends.
If I hire support, am I not trusting God?
Trusting God and taking faithful action go together. You'd hire a coach for your health or your career. Getting wise counsel for the most important relationship of your life is stewardship, not doubt.
I'm in my 40s (or older). Is it too late?
No. Most women we work with are in their 30s and 40s, and we've seen women find love at every age.
I'm so busy with my career. Do I have time?
It takes about 3 hours a week, and calls have replays. Most women find it saves time, because they stop spending evenings on dates and apps that go nowhere.
What happens at the free workshop?
It's a live session on Zoom where I walk you through the dating plan we give our private clients: how to meet your future husband, date him, and get into a committed relationship that leads to marriage.
Do you work with men?
Yes. The free workshop and Dating For Marriage are for women, but I also coach men one on one. We work on confidence, flirting and communicating your needs, healing past hurt, and dating with intention so you can meet the woman you'll marry. Apply for 1:1 coaching.
Your marriage isn't going to happen by accident
Start with the free workshop, or book a complimentary Love Life Audit and find out what's been holding you back.
