HEY!

I'm Matt Cama!

This is my story...

Before high school, I was an outgoing and unapologetically confident kid. I was loud, funny, and full of joy.

But everything shifted for me in my first year of high school.

In Australia, there are sports high schools, and I attended one during my first year. I was surrounded by kids who were extremely athletic.

I, on the other hand, was the opposite.

I was a chubby kid, and at that school, kids started calling me "Fat Matt."

That was the moment I made an unconscious decision: “If I’m seen, it equates to pain. So I need to be as invisible as possible.”

And that’s exactly what I did. I became extremely quiet, reserved, and tried to fade into the background.

But it didn’t stop the bullying.

Instead, it got worse. Kids started calling me "Mute Cama" instead of "Matt Cama."

This experience deeply affected how I showed up in my early teenage and adult years, especially in dating and relationships.

I struggled to express my needs, take up space, and feel confident in who I was.

One time, a girlfriend broke up with me in front of all my friends and said, “You don’t talk!”

I became the guy who was friend-zoned, cheated on, and struggled to keep a girl interested.

Eventually, I decided to hire a dating coach and began my healing journey.

It wasn’t until I worked with coaches and learned how to heal from my past, rewire my subconscious beliefs, and combine that with relational skills—like flirting, communicating my needs, setting boundaries, and being confident in who I am—that my love life began to transform.

As I started to see real results in my relationships, I became obsessed with learning everything I could about healing, dating, and relationships.

Now I'm married to the love of my life and I teach others how to avoid the same struggle that I went through

 

NOW THAT YOU KNOW MY STORY!

Let Me Share The Story Of Kelley & Me!

This is our love story

At the end of 2020,

I (Kelley) was living in Bali, focusing on building my business, nurturing my community, and growing into the woman I desired to be.  

During this time, I felt the desire to call in my life partner.

ONE DAY... As I was scrolling on Instagram, I saw a quote that a friend had reposted. 

It was from a man named Matt Cama. 

I resonated with the quote, so I went to his Instagram and found that he created content about things I also spoke about and lived in the same town as me! 

I instantly knew I'd love to go on a date with him.

I tried not to get ahead of myself because, from what I could see, he seemed to be everything I was looking for in a man.

I prayed to God that Matt and I would connect if it were meant to be, and I followed his account.

Let me pause the story there and let Matt share his side of the story... 

I (Matt) had just finished attending a week-long retreat where I was focused on healing and getting prepared for a future relationship.

On the last night of the retreat, I completed a self-marriage ceremony where I committed to a new relationship with myself. I left the retreat feeling renewed and open-hearted.

After hardly being on my phone the entire week, I turned on my phone, went on Instagram, and saw a bunch of notifications.

However, there was one notification that stood out.

‘@kelleymbode has followed you.’ 

                                                          

And we started chatting back and forth for a bit. 

I decided to ask her if she'd be down to feed fruit to cows with me:

From that first date, we connected beautifully, and conversation flowed so easily between us.

Even though there were a few speed bumps in our first period of dating, Kelley declared that she wanted to be in a committed relationship.

I took some time to consider her desire, then met her with a wholehearted yes.

Now, we're not going to list all the events we have shared since then...

But here are a few of our highlights:

🐈 We’ve been adopted by 6 stray cats

🌏 Traveled many countries

💗 Merged our businesses

🗣 Ran retreats

💍 Got engaged

💒 Got married

✝️ Connected with God

💕 Have helped a ton of women meet their dream man and create healthy, loving relationships! 

And that’s our love story 💗

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